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Gay Events in San Jose

Discover gay events in San Jose — drag shows, dance parties, and LGBTQ+ community gatherings happening across San Jose, California. Browse what's on today, tonight, and this weekend, with new events added every week.

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★Silicon Valley Pride Festival

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Electric Bike Rental in Livermore

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Silicon Valley Pride 2026: Your Complete Guide to San Jose Pride

Everything you need for Silicon Valley Pride 2026 — the San Jose parade and festival at Plaza de César Chávez, gay bars, where to stay, and insider tips.

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July 6, 2026
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Your First Drag Show: What to Wear, How Much Cash to Bring, and Tipping Etiquette

The practical first-timer's guide to drag: what people actually wear, how much cash to bring, how to hand a tip to a queen without making it weird, and what the room expects of you.

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August 13, 2026
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First Time at a Gay Bar: What to Expect (and Why You Should Go)

A gay bar is a bar. Here's what actually happens on a normal night, why walking in alone is easier than you think, and how to pick the right one for your first time.

Robbie S.Robbie S.
August 13, 2026
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