Are There Lesbian Bars and Safe Spaces in San Diego?

San Diego is one of a handful of U.S. cities that still has a dedicated lesbian bar, making it a standout destination for queer women.

Gossip Grill

Gossip Grill (1220 University Ave, Hillcrest) is one of fewer than 30 lesbian bars remaining in the country. Opened in 2009, it fills a void left when previous queer women's bars like Six Degrees and The Flame closed in the early 2000s. By day it's a welcoming restaurant with a full food menu, and by night it transforms into San Diego's go-to sapphic dance spot with DJs, drag shows, and a lively back patio. The bar centers queer and transgender women while remaining inclusive of everyone.

Queer Women-Friendly Spaces

• Alibi — Cocktail bar in Hillcrest with a diverse, welcoming crowd and a strong queer women following
• Nunu's Tavern — Laid-back neighborhood spot in Hillcrest popular with queer women and the broader LGBTQ+ community
• insideOUT — Restaurant and lounge on University Avenue with a mixed LGBTQ+ crowd

Events & Nights

Several Hillcrest venues host queer women's nights and sapphic-focused events throughout the year. During San Diego Pride (July), women's events and meetups are featured throughout Pride week. Check Out x Out's events page for the latest queer women's events in the city.

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