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Tulsa, Oklahoma
Mid-century cocktail lounge on Route 66 with craft drinks and weekend DJs.
The Starlite Bar is a retro-styled cocktail lounge situated on Route 66 in Tulsa's 11th Street corridor. The venue is known for its mid-century decor and a comprehensive drink menu that includes both craft cocktails and thoughtful mocktails. Weekly events include Wednesday movie nights in the dedicated Disco room and live trivia on Thursdays. On weekends, the bar shifts toward alternative electronic dance nights with local DJs. Open Tuesday through Sunday, it serves as a low-key, inclusive alternative to the city's larger dance clubs.
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